Hinduism (part 3 of 4): The status of women in Hinduism
Hinduism[8] is the third largest religion in the world, with more than 950 million adherents.
Although Hindus live predominantly in India and Nepal, they are scattered throughout the world.
As we discussed in the previous two articles, in some ways Hinduism and Islam can be thought of as polar opposites.
Two of the most basic beliefs of Hinduism conflict completely with the most basic beliefs of Islam.
In Islam worship is for One God, Muslims do not worship idols, statues or representations of God.
“We all know it is very costly to marry off a girl whereas the marriage of a son brings back whatever has been spent on him since his birth.
This is a fact and unless this is addressed to, female foeticide cannot be stopped.
Baby boys are desired, whereas, girl babies are despised.
In the Arabian Peninsula before the advent of Prophet Muhammad, may God praise him, and Islam, baby girls were buried alive.
This was an ignorant practice and Prophet Muhammad stated unreservedly that female children are a blessing and that raising them to be righteous believers is a source of great reward. In the Quran, God declares those who despise daughters as evil.
"Wenever any of them is given the glad tiding of [the birth of] a girl, his face darkens, and he is filled with suppressed anger, avoiding all people because of the [alleged] evil of the glad tiding which he has received, [and debating within himself:] Shall he keep this [child] despite the contempt [which he feels for it]-or shall he bury it in the dust?
Evil indeed is whatever they decide!
(Quran 16:58-59)
The traditions of Prophet Muhammad show very clearly that raising girls is a source of pleasure both in this life and in the hereafter.
His beloved wife Aisha relates stories that demonstrate the desirability of female babies.
A lady along with her two daughters came to me (Aisha) asking for some alms, but she found nothing with me except one date which I gave to her and she divided it between her two daughters, and did not eat anything herself, and then she got up and went away.
Then the Prophet came in and I informed him about this story.
He said, “Whoever raises daughters and treats them generously (with benevolence) then these daughters will act as a shield from Hell-Fire for them.” [9]
“Whenever a child was born among them, Aisha would not ask if it were a boy or a girl.
Instead she would ask, ‘Is the child healthy (and without defect)?’ If she was told, ‘Yes,’ she would say, All praise is for Allah, Lord of All the Worlds.
A common social ailment amongst the Hindus is the practice of the bride’s family paying a dowry to her new husband’s family.
Although this practice was formerly outlawed in 1961, it is still pervasive.
Islam recognises the difficulties and hardships that dowries cause therefore has no such custom or requirement.
Instead Islam has what is known as the mahr.
It is a gift of money, possessions or property made by the husband to the wife, which becomes her exclusive property.
It is an admission of her independence, and is intended to show the husband’s willing acceptance of bearing all the necessary expenses of his wife.
As you can see from two examples, the status of women in Islam is very different to the status of women in Hinduism.
While one religion, Hinduism, claims to honour women, it is up to the secular Indian government to make laws forbidding the atrocious treatment Hinduism allows.
On the other hand respect for women is enshrined in Islamic law.